Pal Park Action Replay Pokemon

Mobbing

Man: Good morning ... Erica.

Sit down well ...

Erica: Hello engineer. Thanks.

U .: all right?

E : Yes, I'm not complaining. Health fortunately not say that when there is missing and that is everything.

U: Yeah, so they say. Well Erica, I'll tell you now that it is an informal interview: we say evaluation. I've got his resume and his record of service in our company ... (pause)

I must say that I found very interesting ...

E: interesting ... , in what sense?

U: In general. I see here that you work with us for a few years ... so let's see. ... Five years ...

E: seven months.

U: What?

E: I said, five years and seven months.

U ... Ah yes ... 5 years and 7 months. (Chuckles) It 's very precise. This is a very important quality in his work.

E: Yes, I would say that it is essential .

U: Yes, yes ... I see that her performance is good. I would say excellent. With a record of service of that kind could aspire to a better qualification and a career. I think it's interesting for you ... no?

E: ... Yes, I would say that would very interesting. Moreover I am comfortable here and a career would be a great personal satisfaction.

U: (reading a piece ) Well, well ... here I read also that she is married and has two children.

E: Yes. are still children.

U: Years?

E: Excuse me?

U: How old are they?

E: Ah, excuse me, I had intended. Little, Mark, has two years. Julius has just made 4.

U: Of course I'm a big commitment, work and children, together.

E: Yes, it is challenging, but the fate of women who work. But beyond the office and there are also children, home and husband.

U: Yeah ... If you are not indiscreet, may I ask what job does your husband?

E: E 'clerk, too. It would be unthinkable to live with one salary.

U. Yes, of course. Certainly, with the costs that we have nowadays, it is difficult to live with one salary, especially ... if there are children.

E: Oh yes, they are spending more. A bottomless pit!

U: You told me that is good here in our company and therefore relies heavily on the confidence that this job offers, right?

E: Yes, of course. But I think it's also shown with my work.

U: But of course, certainly did not mean the opposite. . But here, its notes of service, there is a small neo ...

E: A small neo? What do you mean?

U: You see, her boss told me about an incident that occurred a few days ago.

E: Which episode is it about? ... I do not understand

U: I am referring to the fact that his naivety we risk losing an important contract with foreign ...

E: Ah ...

U: You know what I'm talking about, right? Remember?

E: Yes ... I think I remember ... But it was a trivial error to which I promptly remedied and ... (interrupting)

U: Yes .... I know that she has remedied the error, but also includes that she can not risk the future that it can be repeated again ...

E: I assure you that this is the first time such a thing happens to me and how I say I immediately remedied, and no one had damage! ;

U: Sure ... but this makes a ruling on his resume and could be a reason to stop his career ambitions, or even be a termination for cause.

E: Li ... ... Cenzo chin? But he is saying?

U: Nothing, do not worry. I pointed out how close to hell and heaven, how thin the line between good and evil.

E: I make it difficult to follow, forgive me ...!

U: I mean that sometimes in life we \u200b\u200bare faced with important choices and mistakes that these choices can affect many things. For example, the well-being of their family, their independence and perhaps the future of their children.

Conversely, the right choice can open up new horizons for the time away, for example, a career development and the consequent economic benefits with all that implies.

E: ... I want to explain where he intends to come with this speech? What do you mean by "right or wrong choice?" I do not think my error is so serious as to merit a punishment, much less dismissal! I just hope she is kidding, or I do not think I understood what the meaning of his whole speech.

U: But is not that difficult, Erica ... I'm gone clear.

Let's say that you remain unemployed. It would be a disaster, is not it?

E: Yes ...

U : vice versa if it had a promotion would be a good thing.

And, yes, yes ... of course.

U: Well, when these things depend on a small detail, such as its ingenuity at work, and the general and the decision that a person can take on the incident, he sees good she, too, that things are pretty much divided by a thin border.

E : Should I be worried? Will you tell me who want to quit?

U: could be a possibility that if someone decides to do.

E: (crying) Oh .. My God! Nooo ... why? "I do not deserve this ... But who decides?

U: Su ... so do not Erica. Just relax .. do not cry ... Now the duo say things that will make her understand things better and give way to solve them ... with me.

E: Oh, yes, thank you! Could you please help me ...

U: Of course I'm here to help ... this. For starters I will tell you that the person can decide his career or his dismissal was mainly her!

E: I ...? What do you mean?

U: That is to say, as I tried to explain before, is that she must choose its future neighbor.

E: What I choose? I'm afraid to begin to understand ...

U: Fear? What should be afraid? The fear in having to decide?

E: Please, we want to explain ...

U: Hey, come on, calm down ... everything is fine.

E: are you okay? She tells me of the first layoffs, promotions, and then finally tells me that everything depends on me! I worry instead! And how if I care!

U: Erica, you just need to use common sense and choose the safest, easiest, most convenient, and why not, more pleasant!

E: What's that?

U: Well, I expect something that you spare my kindness towards him ...

is: what should I reciprocate kindness?

U : Behold, as I'll decide not only to preserve his job and consequently its economic balance family and that in addition to propose for a promotion, it would be nice of her that she would become more gentle with me ....

is what you are asking? Oh God ... I can not think about it ... you are asking for ...

U: I'm not asking for anything! Be clear! I'm just pointing out that the is free to choose its future. If we want to thank her favors myself grateful in a way more intimate I will not say more than take note. Do ut des, the ancients said. I think a good thing.

E: Please ... do not ask me that!

U: I do not want anything! He did not yet understand? You are free to decide for the best, without any coercion. Do you think I will be using violence?

E: ... I do not know what to say ...

U: Does she want to tell me that I asked something? When would happen? I say only that she can choose what to do.

E: Please ... I do not do this ...

U: I'm not doing anything, she is doing everything. If you do not think that his children and his work, are important, they can always say no, and walk out that door as it is entered. No one will stop.

E: What do you want from me?

U: nothing ... I just think it is due thanks.

Possibly to talk about his future career, I could invite her to dinner and then go to my house, to be sure, establish agreements and settle the details of its future tasks.

E: Listen, I think at this point I remain only say yes or no and in any case, a woman will go out defeated.

(Excerpt from the show , "Women know " Roberto Bani, on the occasion of International Women's Day of 2007)